Time.
Time is one of the most valuable things we have. Yet, we seem to use it as if it is anything but precious. I'm guilty too. I have wasted plenty of time binging shows on Netflix or endlessly scrolling on Facebook or Instagram or doing other meaningless and/or mindless activities. (Just FYI, Netflix and social media aren't always a waste of time.)
What I find fascinating is that my time has become more important to me, even though I have more time to myself than I used to. I am more careful with it than before, even though I am far less busy than I previously have been.
Why?
Because I have learned that I can do what I want. I have learned that I truly am an introvert, and I need alone time to recharge and take care of myself. I have learned that I don't want to busy my life with constant go, go, go. I have learned that it is important to me to be on time and keep scheduled commitments to myself and others. And because of that I am very intentional to what I say yes to. Which means I end up saying no much more frequently.
Honestly, putting myself first and choosing to do the things I really want to do has been liberating. I feel like I can breathe. I value my time more. And when I do spend time with friends, I cherish it more. Because I am no longer making myself do things I don't want to do, AND I have created the space to take the time I need for myself. It is almost magical.
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